No more teens in this household as the youngest hits the big 2-0 today.

Wah everything's maturing, moving on.
Exactly two months later it will be my turn!
Damn!

Lim Pei Teng Lai Liao! n/t

Now I can recall why I was always so eager to return to SG on those holiday trips

because certain individuals here had inflicted an immeasurable amount of pain upon me.
An innocent victim.
BRIMSTONE AND HELLFIRE!!!!!

Men have balls dunno for what man.

via skysignal

Grouphug post 470389710

"It’s just a usual heartbreak story.

I went abroad for several months, and there I met her. We started to go out. At first I didn’t think it was so serious. But I saw that she was madly in love with me. And I started to love her more and more. She became everything for me. The One. We both thought it was our destiny. When I went home, we promised each other to wait. I knew I would see her in about a year, and then, maybe in about three or four years I would be able to go to work in her country, and then we would be able to get married. Then it all seemed to be almost decided.

After I left home, we went on writing letters to each other, calling each other every day. And suddenly, after nearly half a year, she told me that she was now in love with another guy. I was devastated, I was broken. I never knew that one can feel such pain. I was thinking of committing suicide, and the only thing that prevented me from doing that was that I knew that it would be too cruel to my relatives, my friends, and maybe to her too.

Several weeks have passed. It still hurts like hell, though I don’t cry every day anymore. I still feel like I used to have a future, a dream - and now I have none. What is most painful is that maybe subconsciously I knew that our love was doomed from the very beginning."

It's like I'm seeking to join Heartbreakees Anonymous.

Men spend more time gossiping than women,

poll finds.

"Men spend an average 76 minutes a day tittle-tattling with their friends or work colleagues, compared to just 52 minutes for women... Women also love to talk about news, but rather than focusing on politics or government issues, news about soap operas and celebrities are more likely to cause a debate.

MEN'S GOSSIP TOPICS
1. Drunken friends
2. News
3. Old school friends
4. Female colleagues at work
5. The sexiest girl at work
6. Spreading rumours
7. Promotions
8. Sexual relationships
9. Salaries
10. The boss

WOMEN'S GOSSIP TOPICS
1. Other women
2. News
3. Relationship problems
4. Other people's relationships
5. Sexual relationships
6. Friend's weight gain
7. Soap operas
8. Other women's boyfriends / husbands
9. The mother-in-law
10. Celebrities"

Yea, how could I not agree with this poll? Especially in light of recent events that have TRAUMATISED me, can. BrRrr!

Heartache that wouldn't dissipate

In the end, fingers somehow still manage to end up pointing at you, blaming you Dichotomy, faulting you on unverified half-truths. In this instance, who on earth will give a flying heck about your suffering?

"只剩挥散不去的难过"

Meaning lingering sadness, the lyrics of Jay Chou's 枫 put it so well.

I am crrraving for some mint tea

I swear some Twinings' Peppermint green tea right now would solve my life problems.

The tears that I shed are hot

Because I am so ANGRY, at how you have tried to make your point across in that asshole self-superior manner, at the expense of other people's feelings and dignity.

A dagger driven through my heart, one which never had availability for who you merely ASSUMED it did bloody room. Oh, and how come those clever assumptions didn't spread to considering how fragile it is huh?

Hurt.

乌云在我们心里刻下一块阴影

我聆听沉寂已久的心情

过往温柔 已经被时间上锁

只剩挥散不去的难过

Some things in life are just so sad.